Is Britney Spears Adopting Chinese Twins?

Some British tabloid is publishing a claim that Britney Spears is going to be adopting Chinese Twins. I guess sort of like jumping on the Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie bandwagon...

Is it true or not? Who knows but quite frankly, nothing really surprises me anymore...

You won't be seeing Britney Spears nominated at Mom of the Year anytime soon...

If you didn't know, she lost her boys to her ex-husband, Kevin Federline. I have no clue whether or not he is a good dad, but he does have that reputation as a gold digger so make your own conclusions here...

And HOW she lost her boys... boozing, and floozing in public can do that for you...

My brother and his wife wanted to adopt a foster kid and they had to go through a lot of humiliating hoops and paperwork...

And here comes along Britney Spears with a net worth of $100 Million plus (?)... Oh sure! How many kids would you like Ms. Spears?

This is a really dumb rumor but I won't throw it under the bus...

Let me know how you really feel about this!

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The Best Love Story I Have Ever Heard

I Love You

The other day I clicked on a link that took me to Oprah's website. I was intrigued by the 50 year love story that was chronicled in the book, "Love in the Time of Cholera."

The name of the guy in the book was Herman. When he was 12 years old, he was sent along with his family to one of the Nazi Concentration camps. I suspect his family were all killed, but he survived the diseases and the appointment with the dreaded gas chambers for two years.

One day, he was walking along the barb wire fence, he saw a girl his age standing on the other side. She gave him an apple. And did so for every day for the next 7 months.

But he was scheduled for the gas chamber and the Russian army swooped just in time to save him.

15 years later, Herman was living in New York City. His well meaning friends decided to set him up with a blind date.

Any guesses who the girl was? Yep, it was Roma, the girl that fed Herman the apples to save his life from starvation!

Being no idiot, Herman proposed to her that day and they have been married for 50 years.

Today, none of us are living in the horrors of a death camp. so don't take things so seriously and tell everybody that you care for that you love them. If you don't do it now, it may be too late...

Happy Thanksgiving!

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A Comcast Technician Sleeping on my Couch

This video has been seen over a million times. Apparently, this poor "tuckered out" technician was on hold with Comcast for an hour and fell asleep. WITH THE HOMEOWNER VIDEO TAPING HIM!

The point is, don't fall asleep on your relationship. Sometimes the person you are with is the FINEST person you will ever know. Don't regret it...

Oh yeah, Comcast fired the guy, apologized to the homeowner and probably STILL sucks! :)

Britney Spears Fail a Drug Test?

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They say Britney Spears failed a drug test recently. And she is claiming that it was a false positive due to a new inhaler she used...

Why is this news? And why are we so obsessed with Britney self-destruction?

I mean really? She is loaded with money. She can do any legitimate thing in the world. She can really get into a great hobby that is interesting and constructive...

And she does all those things that gets her bad press... drunk driving, public embarrassing incidences, and whatever else she is doing now...

She used to be pretty and America's darling and now look who she is, a really sad, sad woman who is probably crying for help and not getting it.

The point I'm trying to make is be very careful who you idolize. Britney Spears isn't it.

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The World is Going to Pot and All I have is Self Respect

I think it is becoming more and more obvious that many people have lack of self respect...

They damage their bodies by over eating, smoking, excess drinking AND being inconsiderate of others...

If you are like me, polite, considerate and reasonable -- you would be shaking your head at what the world throws at you every day.

And it isn't even funny. Drivers honking and screaming obscenities when you 'dare' to merge onto their lane, co-workers trying to sabotage your career, or even perfect strangers won't take the time to give you directions when you are lost.

All those people have something in common. Lack of self respect and consequently, they are projecting that lack of respect to others.

What to do?

For women, it is absolutely possible to find the man of your dreams and step side the dating mine field.

The Most Incredible Love Story... Isn't it Time to Save Your Marriage?

Together for 71 years, couple die only four hours apart

This is a incredible love story that we may never see again. They are the couple on the left.

This story also reminds me of my great uncle and aunt. They were my godparents. And they never failed to send me a gift every birthday and Christmas even though they lived on the opposite side of the country.

My great aunt suffered just like this lady did, from Alzheimer's and lived in a nursing home for the last couple years of her life. My Uncle, in his 80's would visit her every single afternoon, no matter what the weather was like. When she passed away, my uncle died a week later.

I think the lesson that I learned from my dear godparents is this...

Always cherish the person you choose to live with. It goes both ways. Patience and listening to each other goes a long way.

They passed away ten years ago but I always think of them. They both had big hearts and did their best to love you.

Couldn't ask for more than this...

Save My Marriage

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