Study: Eyes Instinctively Focus on Good-Looking People

"If we're interested in finding a mate, our attention gets quickly and automatically stuck on attractive members of the opposite sex," explained study leader Jon Maner of Florida State University. "If we're jealous and worried about our partner cheating on us, attention gets quickly and automatically stuck on attractive people of our own sex because they are our competitors."

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What do you think?

It is either Angelina Jolie or Brad Pitt...

Quite frankly, I can't stand either, probably because they are in the news all the time but still.

The truth of the matter is I think most of these studies by "researchers" are just that, finding excuses and reasons to justify why we have lack of self respect.

What do I mean?

If you are jealous, if you are looking at other members of the opposite sex instead of your spouse, you are probably lacking in the self-respect department.

And guess what? If you lack self respect -- as sure as it rains, you lack respect for others.

Just something to think about...

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Study: May December Romances Good for Human Race

I read an interesting article the other day concerning May December romance...

This article states that older men who shack up with much younger women keep the Grim Reaper at bay for the human population and extend our species' lifespan, new research claims.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,297076,00.html

Now I don't know if this is true but it sure sounds interesting.

We all know that Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones is 25 years apart but she married him after he reportedly told her that he would like to father her children. And he has -- twice!

To sum it up, the article says that when older men mate with younger women, biologically, both mates live longer...

So, is this just an excuse for older men to seek younger women or does this theory hold water?

How a Christian husband can improve Sex in Christian Marriage

For most of us guys, nobody has taught us how to rock our woman's world in the bedroom...

And most books out there walk on eggshells when the subject of improving sex in a Christian Marriages comes up.

Well, if the sex in the bedroom is unsatisfying...

Robert Irwin wrote this book, "Sexual Skills for the Christian Husband" for the guys who are earnest in wanting to know how to pleasure their wife. And this book doesn't NOT feel like reading porn or some slimy reading book. He tells you EXACTLY what you can do, what is happening inside her and why it is working.

And quite frankly, materials how to improve your sex life is sort of embarrassing. But I have great news. When you order this book on the author's website, the ONLY thing that will show up on your credit card statement at the end of the month is this: SSCH. That's it!!! Nobody is going to know what that is except you... and of course your wife will figure it out when you really impress her with your new bedroom skills! :)

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Shaq is unhappy -- and he filed for a divorce

Even rich and famous folks can be very unhappy. I can conclude that money does not alway guarantee happiness...

As it happens, Shaquille O'Neal claimed his marriage to wife Shaunie has been "irretrievably broken," and accuses her of being shady with his cash.

The first point I wanted to bring to your attention is this dude probably has a net worth over $100 million dollars. And his current NBA contract pays him $20 million a year.

So the last thing I would expect is that money would become an issue with him and his soon to be ex-wife. I have heard rumors that she sells little or unused stuff from the house on ebay.

Don't know if it true or if this is one of the reasons for the rift between the two. At least they are thinking of their 4 kids. Shaq wants them to live with her and he wants liberal visitation rights...

But still -- just because you have loads of money and all the fame you want -- doesn't mean you are perfect. We should always try to improve our relationships -- make it stronger -- it will pay off in the long run because it has been proven that happy marriages has a direct correlation to our personal health.

And those who divorce to seek better mates are usually disappointed. I think the main reason is that they continue to make the same mistakes that caused the problems in the previous marriage.

If you are interested in learning more about what you can do to improve or fix your marriage or relationship -- be sure to check out my review of Saving My Marriage Today! Premium