Friday, October 10, 2008

How Do I Find Mr. Right... Discover 3 Ways How to Captivate Him, Make Him Fall in Love With You and Give You His World...

I have had many women email me and ask how do I find Mr. Right? I don't think they meant where to find Mr. Right but how to find him...

There is a big difference here I think. The problem isn't finding a man... the problem is finding a man that adores you... that cherishes you... that listens to you... and more importantly... you absolutely love him and the special relationship you have together.

But it all starts at the beginning when you first meet him.

1) The first thing you must do is let him be the man... let him be in charge. Trust me here... the very best thing you can do for a guy is let him make all the decisions... corny, yeah... but it is so true! But if the guy insists on letting YOU make the decisions... Just say next and look for a man that you can respect.

2) Now here is the tricky part... letting the man pay for your first dates... This is a time honored ritual that allows the men to feel they are in charge. Similiar to point #1. Cutting him off at the knees by insisting that you want to pay for your meals and movie ticket can be conveyed to the man that you aren't interested in him and he cannot be gallant knight in armor... he will look elsewhere.

3) Oh yeah... no matter how good looking he is... no matter how smooth he is... never, ever have sex with him too soon. Do it and you change the dynamics of the relationship too fast. And more likely... he will see you as a "conquest" and move on to the next girl. Instead, make him "earn" the relationship. Don't make it cheap and tawdry. And besides... most women and polls from women say the same thing... most women regret one-night-stands because they never work out well for the woman -- emotionally and relationally.

The conclusions drawn from this short article is that you should let the man be the man. He may surprise you and rise to the moment so to speak! And don't ever let yourself be seduced into the bedroom early in the relationship.

If you want to find Mr. Right... then discover fantastic dating advice and tips from world class dating experts at my website... and don't forget to grab the free relationship reports too...

You can visit Brad's website at http://www.Building-Healthy-Relationship.com for more relationship and dating resources.

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